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I Blog for Loot Bags and Piggy Banks

I am a work at home mom (WAHM) who takes care of one daughter who is now three years old.

In the past, I used to write for national magazines as a freelance contributing writer. I would also do events management, layout, come up with creative concepts and the like for local companies. I would do all sorts of odd jobs after I left the corporate world about 10 years ago–including blogging.

Blogging has been one of my sources of income for the last three years already. The income has not been regular or sizable, but for me, every penny counts. And it has also improved as I continued to develop my blogs and write content that is relevant to my readers.

But it had not always been like this. If I remember right, I started blogging eight years ago using the Blogger platform. It was just a blog about my rants and raves. Then I shifted to WordPress where I just wrote about my devotions. It was not until three years ago when I met my friend, Ruby of Pinay Mommy Online, who bought me a domain and hosted it for free. That was my first domain blog, Posh Post. She taught me how to get started and eventually, I learned to tinker with my blogs. I am still not very good about the back-end part but at least I get to put up blogs that look like these.

Then I gave birth to Dindin. I used to blog about her and motherhood in my marriage blog that was hosted by Blogger. But Ruby encouraged me to buy a domain for it, hence the blog, Lovingly Mama.

I may be considered a professional blogger in the sense that I already get paid for what I do. That’s what my brother said. If you do something and you get paid, that is already a profession. Though I still have a long way to go in the financial and influence side of blogging (not that I really intend to be influential), but I am happy to be earning from it. No, I am not one of those who earn hundreds of thousands just by blogging. But I am already happy to be able to supplement our family income from my online pursuits. I also feel a bit more accomplished now that my Adsense earning is picking up and I have already been paid twice.

I would be happy to blog about companies who would give me loot bags. I just hope that they notice this blog. And piggy banks, too, like in my article on Insular Life (Preparing the Future Education of Our Children) that rewarded me a cute little piggy bank (literally!).

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A piggy bank from Insular Life

And no, I don’t get loot bags often. Actually, the piggy bank was the first one I got. I live in the province and PR companies in Manila do not often reach out to people here. But that is fine. And I still would be happy to blog about a loot bag.

I am not ashamed to say that I would blog about loot bags and piggy banks. As long as I have a steady stream of income from my blogging endeavors and I am not selling my body or my soul to do it, then I am a happy and content momma. :D If you ask me why most of my articles have grammatical and syntax errors when I am supposed to be a professional writer, well, I hate to say this but I don’t usually edit what I have written. You see, I am quite OC about my writing and if I start to edit it, I would not be able to post it because I will just keep on editing it. LOL

So bear with me. As long as you get my drift, that is fine with me. :D

Epistle #4: Overnight Maturity

PhotobucketDearest Dindin,

It seems that you have matured overnight.

It seems like only yesterday when you consumed so many diapers. And today, you don’t want to pee and poo in your diaper anymore.

It seems like only yesterday when you were scared of the water and now with your floaters, you love swimming in the pool.

It seems like only yesterday when we had to hold on you the swing and then last Saturday, you just got on it and would push yourself to and fro.

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I do not really know how or when these things happen. They just happen. And you are like a little grown up person already. You are growing up so fast that when I look at you while you are sleeping, eating, or just watching TV, I am just so amazed that God “assigned” you to us.

You are growing up gracefully and each passing day is just so amazing. You just have to forgive Mama though because of my so many shortcomings as a mother. I had been very busy lately and had not spent so much time with you, even if we are always together in the bedroom. I sometimes feel bad but it is just that Mama also needs to work. I will have to unload some things so that I can spend more quality time with you more than just feeding you, giving you a bath, giving your vitamins or combing your hair.

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Sigh…I just want to relish every day with you, even if one of my clients tell me that it is not worth it taking care of you. For me, being your Mama and staying at home to be with you is just worth it. No matter what they say. I do not have to defend myself or my position in being a stay at home mom. It is a decision that I have made and to this day, I have not regretted it. I just thank God that He honored my desire to do so and still continues to bless us.

Maybe if you already have a younger brother, then that is the time for us to hire a babysitter who will keep the room tidy and look after the two of you while Mama is away. But for now, it will only be Papa, Mama, and Dindin–just like you always love. :D

I love you Dindin.

Lovingly,
Mama

Working Girl

Last week I had been very busy. As in really busy. Running around, working on my laptop, answering the phone, sending and receiving text messages, etc. etc.

All this time, Dindin was just walking around and behind me. Or she would be watching a video on her Papa’s laptop. Or she would be playing on the bed. If she calls for me, then I would attend to her then go back to working again. This went on for more than week.

One night, Dindin was on the bed and she was busy playing/tinkering with her toys with her corded strawberry phone beside her. While I noticed her playing, I also observed after awhile that she picked up the phone and talked on it, like there was another person on the other line. She was smiling.

Then she put it back down and went back to the toys she was working on.

I realized, she must have been observing me all this time working and she must have noticed that while working I too talked on the phone once in a while.

Oh my baby! Trying to follow her working Mama.