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Teaching Kids the Value of Work and Responsibility

working girl

Dindin enjoys working and helping me. It seems that she gets a great deal of satisfaction or sense of accomplishment.

In our home, Dindin’s life is not all play. I teach her how to help and let her observe the value of work. She thinks that when I am on the computer I am working. So sometimes, she would also pretend to be typing on a keyboard and say, “I am working.”

Aside from that, I also expose her to different household chores like cooking, washing dishes, washing clothes, cleaning the room, and most of all, packing away her toys. The only difference maybe is that she thinks she is just probably playing. But we just encourage her and praise her for the things that she does, especially if she helps us.

In the photo above, you may notice that Dindin is holding a can. We are making wedding giveaways and I was tasked to stick the labels on the cans. Of course, since I don’t have a nanny, Dindin was with me. I told her that I was working on the giveaways. She wanted to help so I let her put the covers on the cans and then she was also in-charge with stacking them. She had so much fun! She is a happy worker, laughing as I would ask her to do something or if I pass the can to her.

Then I also specifically told her to take care of the cans. She took it as a grave responsibility and guarded the cans jealously. When her A-ma passed by to looked at one, Dindin said, “No A-ma, put it back!”

Teehee I am just glad that Dindin is already aware of work and responsibility. And it is better to assign something to her so that she will not keep on bugging me because she is kept busy.

I am a proponent of teaching kids to work as opposed to giving them everything and not allowing them to experience hard work like we did. I think that the work part has been ingrained in me. My parents were hard workers and that contributed to who I am. If I let Dindin skip on the work park, she might think that everything will be offered to her on a silver platter. Then she will realize later on in life that it is not the way things work.

As she grows older, I will be teaching Dindin to do more things. And it is going to be more fun!

5 Ways to Maximize Child and Parent Bonding During Cooking

Family Time Cooking

Cooking is a fun family time bonding.

As the saying goes, cooking time is bonding time. Cooking with kidsis a momentous way to teach them decision making skills and taking responsibility for their choices. Cooking also helps them develop a sense of accomplishment and practice language and math skills. It also gives them pride and opportunity to share their creations with others. Other kids may shrug off the idea of a cook-off but most kids embrace the idea of cooking and learning alongside a parent. For parents, every second counts when it comes to bonding with the kids but how do we maximize bonding during cooking? Read on.

1. Plan ahead. Choose a time when you all will be relaxed and free from other distractions. A tired child can be cranky and impatient and hard to teach. A relaxed pace is conducive to a child who’s a cooking beginner.

2. Organize. Read the entire recipe or let your child read it. Then gather all the ingredients called for in the recipe including the kitchen utensils to be used. That way the whole cooking process is systematic thus minimizing haste and panic.

3. Better be safe. Parents should be the ones handling sharp utensils, electric appliances, the stove and other dangerously hot items to prevent accidents. Teach your children safety cooking around hot ovens and stoves. Just to be sure, when handling hot pots, let your child stand or sit in a safe distance to prevent unwanted mishaps that could spoil the moment. Cooking time is a great time for parents to teach their children safety cooking measures. Cooking is a lovely idea and it should remain that way.

4. Play amusing cooking games. Playing cooking games will get children more interested in cooking. A few examples of cooking games that children will surely enjoy are:

• Pass the What?
This game inspires kids to improve their vocabulary. Place all the food in serving dishes at the center of the table. When children want a particular food on his plate, he must ask for it. The twist is, rather than giving the name of his choice of food, he must give a description. Instead of uttering, “May I have some of those mashed potatoes,” kids should say something like, “May I have some of those white balls of fluff that tastes great with gravy.”

Cooking Reality Show
Most of the kids are familiar with this game think Junior Masterchef. Let dad choose a secret main ingredient that should be used in everyone’s dish. Let the kids unleash their creativity while the adults serve as judges at the end of the cook off.

• Themed Dinner
A themed dinner is always a great way to break the meal routines. The kids should decide what certain foods they want for dinner but it has to coincide with the theme. Everyone should take roles that go with the theme, even wearing foreign costumes and act them out while cooking and eating the meal. Preparing a foreign meal encourages kids to try food from different cultures and to appreciate other cultures as well.

Pizza Art
Pretend that you are all talented Italian artists out to create great works of art. Distribute among the participants personal-sized pizza and an array of healthy pizza toppings. To keep the game moving and more fun, set a time limit. A maximum of 30 minutes will do. Encourage the kids to be creative and original by using their pizza toppings to create amazing art. After the time is up, bake the personalized pizzas and eat them together, but not until everyone decides on a winner. The most creative pizza designer wins.

5. Clean up. When you’re cooking with kids, it’s impossible to expect a mess-free kitchen afterwards. This is also the time to teach your kids the value of cleanliness. Tell them that a good chef always cleans up. The cleaning up part of is unappealing to most people especially the kids, but it is an essential part of the cooking process. Teaching your child the good points of cleanliness instills a sense of responsibility. Prepare a huge bowl or trash to collect all of the food wastes and trash as you cook. Teach your child to dump the bowl/trash bag at the end of the cooking session. And end the cooking session with proper hand washing.

Learning to cook can be a wonderful experience for your kids. And it also brings you closer to them while growing up. They can always look back on those times with fondness. Because memories are worth making, make cooking a regular bonding activity.