BACOLOD HOMESCHOOLERS NETWORK makes homeschooling in Bacolod easier
“If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured or far away.”
The story of three very different animals — a bird, a monkey, and a fish–all learning uniform skills from animal school encouraged my husband and I to choose homeschooling for our children. We both wanted to do it, even before I was pregnant with our first child. We believe that each child is unique and should not be made to conform in a class of 30 to 40 students, all learning the same things and forced to follow the same pace.
So when I got pregnant and subsequently gave birth, everything that we did, including the activities that we chose for our daughter, were geared towards building her up for homeschooling.
If by any chance you are interested in homeschooling your children, here is an article I wrote in the past: Choosing to Homeschool our Children in the Philippines. I can only speak about our experience with the Philippine School of Tomorrow, though there are many other providers that offer different kinds of curriculum and prices. All of them, however, are based in Manila.
A lot of people expected our daughter to study in the same Chinese school where my husband attended and where my father-in-law is a member of the school board. We were also met with questioning looks, actual questions, up to downright discouragement in our choice to homeschool our daughter. It was not an easy choice, with nobody in our immediate circle encouraging us. And in our case, we were thrown with more questions that we can provide answers for. After each encounter where we had to explain our choice to homeschool, I felt exhausted doing so. And we haven’t even started yet.
When we started homeschooling our eldest daughter Shawna for Level 1, it was a lonely planet for us. We knew that there were other homeschooling families in Bacolod, but for two years, the feeling is that we were alone in this endeavor.
On our third year, I opened a public group on Facebook for those families who are homeschooling in Bacolod. Anybody who was already homeschooling or was planning to homeschool their children was added there. It is a group that made us feel that we belonged. There, I answered inquiries about homeschooling to the best of my ability. We also encouraged each other. The group was existing for a few months already when I finally decided to hold our first activity. That was in July of 2016. The activity wasn’t structured–I just wanted our kids to have a Nutrition Month activity and henceforth mirror every monthly activity that is being held in a regular school.
I made the call in the group, inviting the other parents if they want to let their children join in a Nutrition Day activity, specifically a field trip. I scouted for places to hold it and eventually, I decided on having our Nutrition Day at the Welcome Home Organic Garden and Cafe. Only three other moms responded. We brought our kids to Welcome Home, let the staff do their farm tour, and we ended up with partaking of an organic lunch at their garden cafe. It was a lovely and enriching experience for the kids and also a refreshing time for the parents who were able to bond and discuss matters pertaining to homeschooling. It was empowering because at that moment, we felt stronger and affirmed because we were together.
Since I took a lot of nice photos during the event, I posted them on my personal Facebook account and shared it to the group. I then got inquiries about the next event as well as inquiries on how to join the group. I made the group private already because of the security risks about letting the public know of our next activity. I made sure that the members I added are actually homeschooling and not just there to snoop around.
The following month, which was August, we held our Linggo ng Wika activity at Tita Beth’s Pancit Malabon Haus for a barrio fiesta themed event. Our attendees increased to 12 kids. As we were getting bigger and there were more inquiries, I started the groups’ Facebook page and that was when the BACOLOD HOMESCHOOLERS NETWORK was born.
BACOLOD HOMESCHOOLERS NETWORK
What Bacolod Homeschoolers is For
The Bacolod Homeschoolers Network is a non-profit organization. We are composed of Bacolod-based families dedicated to homeschooling our children and preparing them holistically for the future. We have networked with other families to provide monthly extracurricular activities for our homeschooled children. It is our aim to enhance our kids’ learning experience as well as build friendships with their “homeschoolmates”.
Moreover, we also provide information to those who are interested to homeschool their children here in Bacolod, channeling them to homeschooling providers and giving them tips on how to go about it. The homeschooling community here in Bacolod is picking up and we would like to be instrumental in making this community grow.
From only four families with a total of five kids, we now have 17 member-families and over 20 kids who are involved in the network. Our BHN page has grown, now having almost 1,500 followers. We post our activities there that have already passed (as I’ve said, for security reasons and also because such events are not public). We also share insights and tips there. I now run the page with another mom, Tracy Divinagracia. Together, we answer inquiries about homeschooling.
To make our organization more structured, I made an official BHN logo and also had official T-shirts made for the children. That way, they have uniforms whenever we have activities that wouldn’t need costumes. It’s also easy to spot them in the crowd.
HOW BHN HAS MADE A DIFFERENCE
As homeschooling families, we know that homeschooling is not for everyone, just as traditional schools are not for us. What we are showing other parents is that going to a traditional school for their children’s education is not the only option. This is especially true for parents who have disappointments in regular schools or whose children are experiencing bullying.
In one singing contest event held at the mall where my daughter Shawna joined, I was approached by another mom who said she is now homeschooling her daughter, all because she read my article. She said that because of the information I shared, she was able to understand more about homeschooling and so she withdrew her daughter from their regular school and are now homeschooling.
Another mom also shared that she was happy to have found our group. She has been homeschooling for a year already and thought she was all alone here in Bacolod. She said, “Thank you. I thought I was an island mom homeschooling my kids (6 and 3 yo). Glad I came across your group. You are Godsent.” Words like these warm my heart, as honestly, I never expected that my little “movement” on FB would stir something big in our city.
Aside from our fun monthly activities, we also want to expose our children to various campaigns that will form their values, such as holding an outreach during Shawna’s birthday. Instead of holding a birthday party with friends, we held her 8th birthday party at the Home of Hope in Brgy. Handumanan, Bacolod City along with other homeschoolers. We did it complete with a magician and told Shawna beforehand not to expect gifts. She was very happy that we did that.
Environmental and Socio-Economic Events
For an activity with an environmental and socio-economic impact, our group went to Isabela, Negros Occidental for a fruit tree planting activity in the backyards of some residents in Brgy. Tinongan. Read more about that activity: ISABELA FRUIT TREES PROJECT with BACOLOD HOMESCHOOLERS. This activity was graced by Isabela Mayor Joselito Malabor and was published in a local daily.
Because of my consistent efforts to make the concept of homeschooling in Bacolod become more popular in the city, I have been invited to speak about homeschooling twice already. The first one was when I talked about the Benefits of Homeschooling during the 1st Cloth Diaper Change 2017 event held at the Business Inn here in Bacolod City and the second one was during the Expo Mom 2017event at The District North Point in Talisay. Together with Mommy Tracy and Mommy Laksmi, we were talk show guests who answered questions about homeschooling in general and our individual journeys in particular.
Perhaps the greatest milestone that I’ve experienced in relation to the group is being awarded the Social Media Campaign of the year at the Globe Media Excellence Awards 2017, for my online campaign, #homeschoolinginBacolod. It is a year-long search for the online campaign that has the most impact in its area of coverage. The awards night was held at the Radisson Blu in Cebu City and I am honored to share the stage with my husband and our two children as I received the award. After all, the kids are the reasons why we are homeschooling and why I started the campaign. Read: SigridSays Wins Big in GMEA 2017
If there is one big change that I have noticed in the homeschooling landscape in Bacolod then and now, it is the way people react towards us whenever they learn that we are homeschooling our kids. Whereas in the past, we would only hear discouraging remarks, now people are more accepting and are even impressed with the system, especially after they meet our kids and discover how well-adjusted they are.
Though pretty young, the Bacolod Homeschoolers Network has already impacted so many lives, not just our member homeschooling families but most especially to those who are looking for education alternatives. My husband and I have made this choice for our children and we are finding ways to make this journey more fulfilling for us, for our kids, and for other homeschooling families as well. We are happy that as a family, the little things that we do are not just creating ripples but waves in the society that are paving the way for acceptance and understanding of the concept of homeschooling.
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